Are You Ready Conquer Lust?

So many times in life, we just wear a mask

Hiding our true identity

Portraying ourselves to be happy when we truly aren’t

This especially happens on social media or when surrounded by peers

We have been so attuned to do such

That we are hiding who we truly are

Behind closed doors, we have secret addictions that hold us back

It can range from a number of things, whether it’s drugs, lust, social media etc

I was that guy

I’ve battled and overcame many addictions

But there was one that felt like it was impossible to stop

Being addicted to lust 

So many failed marriages and relationships from this alone

I realized the damage I was causing

I couldn’t stand myself

I had to peel back the layers and do some deep diving

I realized this was a coping mechanism that I used to numb myself from pain

With that recognition, I was able to conquer lust

Learning about sperm retention and the benefits of it has made me stronger minded

The longer I go without, the stronger I am

Which reminds me on how weak minded I was once

I’ve came a long way

Some could say its been a journey

But I realized how crucial this is for us men

Porn has caused me so many problems which led me to questioning my identity

All these thoughts could have been avoided if I wasnt so addicted to lust

& I know how complicated it can be

Even when you aren’t watching porn

The temptation will always be there

Whether you go on social media or out in the real world

Having those thoughts are unavoidable when you are constantly watching porn

The longer i’ve been without it, the more stronger minded I have been

I can keep eye contact,  I don’t feel as rattled when i’m out in public

I feel more calm and peace at myself

It’s almost as if I have more clarity on who I am as a person

I’ve never been more comfortable in my life

This is why it’s crucial to avoid the P word

It’s no wonder why all these woman in the world feel the need to be in constant competition

Instead of supporting each other

Too many men are guilty of it whether they want to admit it or not

If you truly love somebody, you wouldn’t want to hurt them right?

I know some would automatically assume its that easy to stop

But its not

This is why we need to get to the root of your problem

The majority of the time, it’s not as easy as most people would think

Nobody knows your story

Nobody knows what you been through

Nobody knows how badly you want to stop but just can’t

If it were that simple then I’m sure this wouldn’t be such an ongoing issue

As somebody who has been through it all

I understand your journey

I understand the feeling of the odds being stacked against you

I understand the feeling of being a failure

But guess what?

You’re are not

The fact that you are even entertaining this, shows that you actually want to change

It shows that you are willing to take a look in the mirror and do some deep diving

Whether you realize you have a problem or not

If you are participating in these acts daily

Then you have a problem

It all starts with you acknowledging that