My self discovery journey has changed me for the better

I’ve been on a wild self discovery journey since 2020.  When I found out I was going to be a father, in 2019, everything changed.  I automatically went into panic mode and prepared myself  any way I that can.  Dealt with lots of self-doubt, tests and daily battles.  But one thing i’ve learned is how resilient it has made me.

If I were to sit back and think about the last five years,  I need to be proud of myself.  I was told I wasn’t going to be able to do it, I was told it was too hard but yet i’m still some how here still standing.

Now don’t get me wrong, there are many things that I would have done differently but those decisions or choices that I made, I have to live with.

My advice and perspective can help young men or soon to be fathers anywhere which is why soon i’m going to offer sessions.

I’ve dealt with everything from self-doubt to identity issues.  My tool’s will help you prosper and help you deal with.

I know exactly what it’s like to constantly be worried about what everybody thinks. I have wasted so much time and energy on this alone that it has made me waste time that I could never get back.

When it came time for me to do something important, of course I doubted myself. Not only did I tell myself I can’t get something done, I used it as an excuse to not even try.

Now that is the worse place to be. Not having any hope, no faith led to some very dark days.

The stuff that I have been through, most would have quit by now. But not me, I can’t use that as an excuse. Failure is not an option and ultimately what don’t kill us, makes us stronger.

I found out I was going to be a father in 2019. The doubts came back in my life once I was told I wasn’t going to be able to do it. I was told it would be too hard.

One thing that they were right about was that it was hard, very hard but they were 100% wrong by saying i’m not going to be able to do it

Because guess what, I’m still standing.

Now could I have done things better? ABSOLUTELY. I beat myself up about that daily but I have come along way and it has made me become a better person in more ways than one would imagine.

Everyday is an opportunity to get better. Not only that be do better.

I was at a point where I was doing wrong to the ones that were there for me since the beginning.

I realized that my selfishness and negativity were the causes to my relationship and it was affecting my family.

So I made a stand do better. If I want change in the world, then I need to do my part as well.